harderbabyyeah asked:Im a 21 yr old female. and I want two dicks in my pussy so bad. Ive never done it but i think it would feel amazing. but im afraid I'd feel horrible about it afterwards. Is it slutty to want this?
Hey, awesome! Thanks so much for your comment!! The short answer is: no, it’s not slutty!
To be honest, I hate the word slutty and wish it didn’t exist. It’s a gigantic pain in the ass for women and for men too, and is mostly used by douches to put people down for no good reason.
The way I see it, you like what you like. And if you like sex then you like sex. And if you like sex with multiple partners you like sex with multiple partners. There’s nothing wrong about that.
It sounds so cliche to say this stuff but it’s also true: you only live one life for sure. Don’t waste what you’ve been given. If you know you want something bad, just go for it! Don’t hurt anyone else to get it, but if you can do it without hurting anyone then just enjoy.
Let me put it this way, as a 26 year old in a long term relationship, if I knew when I was a single 21 year old what I know now, I would be taking all the chances my 21 year old self got and going out of my way to get what I wanted from my sex life. Don’t waste your youth wondering if you should or shouldn’t do it. If you like it, do it and do it now.
I guess you could say I live my life by a few guidelines and maybe you’ll find them helpful to hear, who knows. But they go something like this:
* respect alternative points of view
* don’t harm or hurt others
* know yourself deeply and respect your own needs
* do what you desire to do so long as you don’t disrespect others or harm others
Please don’t waste your time worrying about this. Slutty is a meaningless concept. It just means a woman who likes sex, which some have decided is a bad thing. It really isn’t though. Don’t deny yourself because of what others think or because of an old fashioned sexist concept that has no place in the modern world.
You sound like a cool girl. I hope you can find it in yourself to explore what you desire. If you ever wanna chat more, message me and I’ll give you my email address. Enjoy yourself!